Games for new relationships, first dates and getting to know someone
Early on, the hard part is knowing what to ask. These 13 free games give two people something to talk about: get-to-know-you questions, would you rather, green flags and red flags, dealbreakers, and what you want your future to look like. Each of you answers on your own phone, then the answers are revealed together.
13 games, 1 to 12 players, 4 to 16 minutes a round. Try Green flag or red flag? Check yourself first, What’s your first-date style?, Situationship or serious?, In Sync.
It works on a video call, side by side, or over several days if you are in different time zones.
13 games
- Green flag or red flag? Check yourself first1–12 players · 5 minSome habits keep a relationship healthy. Some wreck it. Sort them, and be honest about which ones you do.
- What’s your first-date style?1–12 players · 4 minThe planner, the charmer, the slow burner, the romantic or the funny one. Eight questions on how you really date.
- Situationship or serious?1–12 players · 5 minLate-night texts, “let’s not label it”, never meeting their friends. Sort the signs that mean it’s serious from the ones that mean it isn’t.
- In Sync2–8 players · 8 minAnswer at the same time. Score only when you both pick the same thing.
- Know Your Person2–6 players · 10 minThey answer about themselves. You predict what they said.
- Date Night Dilemmas2–8 players · 8 minWould you rather, for couples. Pick a side, then defend it.
- The Deep End2–8 players · 16 minQuestions that skip the small talk. Answer out loud, then listen to theirs.
- Future Us2–8 players · 9 minThe big questions about your future. Do you want the same thing?
- Green Flag, Red Flag2–8 players · 8 minOne dating habit at a time. Is it a green flag or a red one?
- Sweet Talk2–8 players · 10 minFinish the sentence about each other, out loud. The best line takes the round.
- Dealbreakers2–8 players · 8 minCould you live with it, or is it over? Find out where your lines are.
- Flirt or Fail2–8 players · 10 minSay your best line for the situation. The smoothest delivery wins.
- Get to Know You2–8 players · 11 minQuestions for two people who want to skip the small talk, answered by voice.
Frequently asked questions
What games can a new couple play online?
Get to Know You, Would you rather for couples (Date Night Dilemmas), Green Flag Red Flag, Dealbreakers and Know Your Person are good starting points. They keep the questions light and the pace yours.
Are there games for a first date over video call?
Yes. Both of you join the same room from your own devices and keep the call open in another tab or window.
Are they suitable for teens?
Letternerd is for ages 13 and up. The couples games are rated for older teens and adults, so younger teens should pick from the friends and school games instead.
Is it free, and do I need an account?
Yes, it is free. Everything here runs in the browser on a phone, tablet or computer, and you can play as a guest with no account and no download.